We often hear that the dance studio is a sacred space, like Church. It is revered and silent, respected. Teachers have the complete power and control. What they do,is unquestioned.
I used to believe this too.
However, in light of the ‘Me too’ movement, I have come to realise that too much power in the hands of teachers can cause a toxic imbalance.
I do believe that silence during a class is vital to safety. Children are being asked to do extraordinary things with their physique, so respect and quiet are needed. However, I now believe children need more autonomy over their bodies.
Hands on correcting (adjusting) children during exercises is the norm, I have been grabbed, poked, lifted and stroked as a student, without question. It never bothered me, it never felt inappropriate. I do now however, as a teacher, ask consent before I touch anyone. I do now try to adjust verbally more than physically.
The balance between teacher and student has had to evolve. We know better now, so we must do better.
I was an exemplary student. I would never question what a teacher did in class. This led me to be the ‘perfect’ employee. This also led me to be manipulated in later years by people in authority. I remained passive as an adult, which led me to be abused by Directors. I was abused mentally and sexually. I froze in situations, instead of stating my discomfort. I accepted unwanted sexual attention, as I was frightened to rock the boat and be fired.
I therefore know now, that I wish to raise students that understand their body is theirs.
When I hear, ‘kids aren’t like they used to be! Where is the respect?” I think ‘They know better, they are way more aware of their rights!”
It’s definitely a new era and it’s changing for the better. As youth and culture evolve, so must teachers.
'Curioser and Curioser' {Alice} 