“Off with their heads”! {Red Queen}

Where does discipline come from?

To discipline a child seems old fashioned. It is far more effective to encourage self discipline.

We have learned so much about child psychology. We have learned that boundaries are terrific. A safety net if you will, a stretchy barrier made of elastic that can be pulled and pushed to encourage the child to form their own ideology. Their own understanding of where the ‘edges’ of security lay.

Instead of disciplining my class… I set boundaries. The boundaries are clear and concise. They protect the child and they protect me.

If the boundaries are clear, I find the need to discipline becomes almost obsolete.

How do you discipline a child?

Put the axe away! Set kind boundaries. I promise it works.

Off with their heads! ( Alice Howard)

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